I really do get sick of when friends only contact me for advice or when he/she is going through relationship/life drama. Not that I wont be there for anyone who calls/texts/visits (I’m there for you 100%), but I’m not sure if you’ve realized, I like being around friends when you’re going through the good times. I’d like you to share your happiness with me, as I would in return. However, just coming around when you’re in need makes you appear selfish. When was the last time you sincerely asked (and actually cared) how I was? Well, 9/10 I’ll say I’m great/good but that’s because you’re not around and that’s the easy answer so you can continue to tell me about your issues.
FYI you’re not a friend. I’m just doing what any decent person would do, listen.